Being True to Myself - Authenticity

Life’s Purpose #12 - Being True to Myself

“I want to live a life where I present to myself and others my authentic self. I want to maintain my true self while being genuine and sincere in all of my relationships and interactions with others.”

Your authentic self is who you really are deep down.  It is the part of you that doesn’t care what others think.  Authenticity means you are true to your own personality, values, and spirit. You are honest with yourself and with others and you take responsibility for your mistakes. Authenticity happens when your words, actions, and behaviours align with your values, ideals, and your core identity.

Society and our own thoughts and minds often limit our ability to express our true selves.  For most of us the bottom line is that we are scared. Fear and anxiety generated within the boundaries in everyday life are often the result. We are afraid of other people’s judgments or reactions.  As a result, we wear ‘masks’ to disguise our true feelings in order to manage our lives and simply try to fit in.

In reality, you will most likely be more appreciated for simply being your real self.  Your real self is the actual self that reflects your true qualities, aptitudes, and characteristics.  When you are your real self it makes you more trustworthy. You are more enjoyable to work with, and it shows others that you aren’t afraid to stand out.

Personal authenticity is the daily expression of your core beliefs and personality.  Be who you are.  Appreciate your own quirkiness and learn to respect yourself.  Treat others with respect and display a consistent set of values.  Don’t change your behaviour from one conversation to the next. 

Authenticity inspires loyalty and engagement where integrity, ethics and morals are not questioned.  Because they exude trustworthiness and confidence, we tend to be drawn to authentic people. When you are being your true self, you inspire others to feel safe to share more of themselves.  People who are authentic tend to be happier, have higher self-esteem, and feel better about their relationships.

How can you live an authentic life?  Give up the act.  It is exhausting trying to be someone you are not.  Get comfortable with being vulnerable.  Focus on connections not material possessions.  Be humble. Act rather than react. Embrace your imperfections. Do it for yourself.

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